Interpersonal Conflict in a relationship
Dear Readers, I may need your help in this matter. I have two friends, Arina and Zakir who are currently in a relationship. However, their relationship is currently unstable. This is because both feel that they are the only one putting in a lot of effort into the relationship. One day, both Arina and Zakir called me at a different time to explain their problems. Each of them had a different point of view of how they have treated each other. On Arina’s side of her story, she told me that she had been texting him every day but Zakir would only reply to her texts only at night or the next morning. He told her that he was so busy that he could not text her back. She also explained to me that she went to his place and bought for him bean curd when he was ill. All she got was a reply from his saying “Do you know your way home?”. On Zakir’s side of his story, he complained that Arina did not bother to call him to show that she was worried for him. He then further expla...